Partner Crime and Violence Prevention

Foreword

Counterintelligence will aid in preventing any form of domestic abuse, companion violence, spiritual terrorism or other unseen activities. We may have family, friends and acquaintances that have experiences mistreatment of one form or another. By being prepared and presenting proper information will alleviate any situation quickly and safely. By knowing how to deal with these situations, each person will be less vulnerable to scrupulous internal and external forces that may not have our best interest in mind. Counterintelligence will also help preserve our physical, mental, financial and spiritual well being. Always be prepared for any form of exploitation or intelligence improprieties.

Partner Violence and Prevention

Partner abuse is a pattern of mistreatment of one's companion. It is a crime. In most cases, it is the woman who is abuse. It is sometimes called "domestic violence" which occurs more often then you think. People should learn about partner abuse in order to understand, stop and solve it. The following are the types of abuse that can occur.

Emotional abuse

	Destroys the person self esteem, compassion for others and creates guilt.
	Uses silent treatment or improperly withholds affections.
	Uses threats, confusion or control the person actions.
	Unable to control jealousy, anger and other unacceptable behavior.
	Creates confusion and unrealistic expectations.
	Promises of marriage, love and soul mates.
	Creation of false hopes, misinformation and any type of deception.
	Unwelcome sexual comments, abusive or experiences.
	Mental health threats and abuse.
	Religious or spiritual terrorism in any form.

Physical Abuse

Causes physical pain or injury

Watch out for signs of punching, shaking, pushing, grabbing, slapping, tickling, hugging or kicking. Anything that could cause discomfort or is unwanted.

Use of any kind of weapons to illustrate a point.

Corruptive use of drugs, prescription, non-prescription or illegal drugs.

Forced into unwanted situations without a proper explanation and support.

Improperly uses the person for money, gifts or other financial matters.

Sexual Abuse

Unwelcome sexual comments, kissing or intercourse.

Marital rape is forced sexual intercourse between two people who know each other. It is common and serious.

Spiritual Abuse (Author's Viewpoint)

	Destroys the person self esteem, compassion for others and creates guilt.
	Use threats, confusions and control the person actions.
	Causes physical pain and injury.
	Uses jealousy, anger and other unacceptable behavior to Control behavior.
	Problems with expressing thoughts and ideas.
	Problems with verbal and written communications.
	Thoughts that are not your own.
	Forces you do things that you would never do.
	Hard to sense, understand and control, but must be prevented.

Partner abuse is common and many factors contribute to the problem.

	Outdated and confused sexual roles or stereotypes are common.
	Poor communicating and parenting skills contribute to violence due to the frustration and inability to solve problems by talking.
	Pre existing conditions of physical, emotional and spiritual violence that occurred due to parental abuse other forms. They may transfer their experiences to their own children and other people.
	Misconstrued views make wives legal property, subject them to servitude and wrongful punishment from their husbands
	Public knowledge of partner abuse is considered a private manner and should not be reported or discussed.
	Media and people's perceptions glorify violence.
	Alcohol or drug abuse can contribute to the above problem.
	Abusers come from all economic and social classes, ethnic and educational background.
	Playing physical, mental, financial and spiritual games that are unhealthy, confusing, frightening and dangerous to both parties.

Another interested pattern is called Cycle abuse.

	Tension- building which starts as minor conflicts and builds to a violent point within a few hours or many months. Victims sense it and use humor to counteract it.
	Once violence is triggered, the victim will be unable to stop it. Apologizing or reasoning rarely works with the abuser.
	The final cycle is a period of remorse where the abuser feels ashamed, guilty and promises that it will never happen again. The Abuser will be on his best noble behavior. Eventually, the cycle will start again. The abuser will create a hostile environment.
	Physical, mental and spiritual games may attribute to the violence.

Women who find themselves trapped in a relationship are unable to escape because of the following problems.

	A fear of more violence and threats if they attempt to leave.
	Unable to leave due to financial dependence.
	A low sense of self-esteem develops due to abuse.
	False hope of companion promises of a healthier change.
	Religious, cultural beliefs and biases that inhibits the person.
	Forced Isolation that cutoff family and friends may occur.
	Self-blame for the abuse. The abuse is never the victim's fault.
	Physical, mental and spiritual terrorism that inhibits the person.

Men who may find themselves trapped or abused because of the following.

	The frequency or severity of the abuse goes unreported because they feel ashamed and embarrassed if they ask for help.
	Men are unable to get proper help due to limited resources.
	People believe that men are unable to be abuse physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually. It may not be considered as abuse.
	Financial limitations and threats of financial support.
	Fear of losing everything in law suits.
	Misplaced guilt, loss of reputation, low self esteem and fear of being alone
	Physical, mental and spiritual handicaps.
	Physical, mental and spiritual terrorism that inhibits the person to leave.

Techniques can play a part of preventing partner abuse. Domestic Violence is a serious social problem. We can help by the following.

	Build each other up. Avoid tearing each other apart.
	Stop playing physical, mental, financial and spiritual games in any form.
	Teach your children that violence, deception and dangrous games are not the answer.
	Create a " No Violence Rule." Create plans for proper interactions.
	Get help if you are unable to resolve your problems.
	Use effective communications such as listening and speaking to find solutions.

	Educate yourself in proper relationships.
	Support educational and prevention programs in the community.
	Express your support for new legislation to combat violence and dangerous games.
	Participate in crime and violence prevention.
	Use your own judgment. Trust your instincts.
	Train yourself in counterintelligence, safety and security.
	Report all cases of abuse to the police. Your action could prevent serious abuse and encourage the couple to get help.

Special Note: If you suspect that you are involved in an unhealthy relationship, get help and walk away. It is common practice to question whether abuse occurred and if it was your fault. If you believe you were abused then you were mistreated. Trust yourself to do what is right.

Things to do for self Improvement, self protection and self preservation.

	Examine and understand your own self esteem.
	Understand and use positive thinking techniques that build you up.
	Understand and combat questionable peer pressure.
	Learn about conflict resolution, decision-making, and stress management.
	Learn about proper family relations and family violence.
	Learn about mental health issues to avoid ignorance misguidance and trickery.
	Stay healthy, build lasting friendships and get a good education.
	Stay away from drugs and people who use drugs.
	Learn Proper dating practices to avoid violence and misguidance.
	Learn Proper relationship practices with your spouse or loved one.
	Learn about Crime and Violence Prevention and Counterintelligence and Executive Protection.
	Learn about law enforcement , proper business skills and criminal fraud.
	Learn how to prevent obsessive behavior, jealousy , abnormal behavior or suicides.
	Learn about cultural diversity, religious communities and cults.
	Learn to remain silent, peaceful and loving when people insult, oppress, humiliate, harass and harm you. Let God's power work through his/her children. Wait for God's permission to defend yourself.
	Always test the spirits, eliminate unnecessary spiritual guides and do your own background investigation.
	Adapt, filter and block unwanted mental thoughts or spiritual frequencies of the mind through meditation, biofeedback, hypnosis, visualizations, real world experiences, social events, counseling, self improvement techniques and people's support, etc.
	Create a supportive work and community environment. If necessary, recruit people for assistance.
	Listen to messages from higher spiritual entities
	Take Courage, put on the armor of God and stand firm.

From time to time and after all we could do, we may need help to improve our relationships and our environment.

Ask for help from the following resources:

Find a professional who understands all aspects of your physical, mental and spiritual situation. Be careful that you are not mislead or overpowered by physical, mental and spiritual undue influences. Do your own research. Hire experts. Recruit people. Avoid frivolous law suits.

If you are harmed physically, emotionally and spiritually, get medical attention or other help.

Talk with someone who can help such as friends, mental health professionals, clergy or special law enforcement people. If necessary, look for counseling even if it happen a while ago.

Look for written information such as booklets.

Network, Seek Assistance and Check out with extreme care:

God and/or spiritual support resources

Law Enforcement and Intelligence communities

Crime and Violence Prevention Centers

Neighborhood watch or community support group

Hotlines, Shelters, legal aid services

Family Service Associations & Guidance and Marriage Counselors.

Family therapist, psychologists and psychiatrists.

Mental Health Centers, Social Services and Agencies.

Human Resources, business people and associations and other organizations.

See Special Contact List & Guidelines

See Mental Health Crime and Violence Prevention

See Spiritual Crime and Violence Prevention

See Professional Crime and Violence Prevention

Continue improving your business and personal life.

Warning: Do not hesitate to seek help. It may save you a lot of pain, suffering and accidents at a later date. Sometimes all we need is special attention to prevent further violence. Also, we may need special people to cleanup our own environment that is impacting us such as law enforcement or intelligence professionals.

Annulment, Separation and/or Divorce:

After you have examined your situation, tried to create a healthy relationship and asked for God guidance, annulment, separation and/or divorce may be the only alternative to the solution. It is beyond the scope of this work to go into any further discussions except to present questions that may help you understand your situation.

Let us ask examine the decisions you made to reach this point without Gods guidance.

	Did you see any warning signs during the dating period?
	Did you see warning signs before the marriage?
	Were you overpowered by unseen spiritual influences who intention were dishonorable?
	Was there any type of evil clouding your mind and forcing you to make bad decisions?
	Were you thinking clearly? Were you tricked by ungodly forces?
	Did God provide you with a distinct sign that you ignored or were blind for no reason?
	Did you need to learn a lesson that required the relationship?
	Were there unresolved issues with your parents that forced you into that relationship?
	Did you play games that were cruel and unnecessary? Unjustly use people?
	Did you sacrifice yourself to save a person due to misplace guilt?
	Did you tell the truth or lie to get what you wanted? When did this start?
	Was the marriage or breakup the result of some form of punishment due to past indiscretions? Is this a punishment for a past life indiscretion?
	Did you get trapped into the relationship due to unforeseen surprises?
	Were you lonely and thought marriage would solve the problem?
	Did you do the best you could do, but was not meant to be?
	Did you examine your own spiritual mission and environment before making the decision?

Conclusion:

Partner crime and violence is a serious issue. A relationship should never reach this point. By being aware of partner crime and violence, warning signs and related issues will help prepare you for new relationships or tell you to get out of the unhealthy relationships. I will not deceive you, the decisions a person will make will be very difficult due to unpleasant consequences. Counterintelligence will aid in preventing any form of domestic abuse, companion violence, unwanted games, spiritual terrorism or other unseen activities. In addition, Counterintelligence will also help preserve our physical, mental, financial and spiritual well being. Ask God, use spiritual discernment and trust your instincts to do what is required to keep you safe and healthy.

Counterintelligence: Crime and Violence Prevention